I had lunch with someone I hadn’t seen since childhood today
and she put into words something I’ve had a hard time getting from my head onto
paper. She said being divorced with kids made her invisible when she went to
church. Yes, I thought, that’s it exactly. After attending the same church for
years I found myself separated from my husband and suddenly invisible.
Not all churches treat broken families as if they somehow
were less than there but they may make invisible teenagers, people who don’t
dress to their standards or those who like me are less than young.
There are invisible people all around us. Oh they’re there
all right but if we pretend they aren’t then we don’t have to go out of our way
to deal with them. You know, they might want something from us or perish the
thought be in some kind of need and we really don’t want to deal with that.
We are the church, the bride of Christ and we have taken
erasers out instead of magnifying glasses. As the Brand Heath song says:
Give me your eyes for just
one second
Give me your eyes so I can see,
Everything that I keep missing,
Give your love for humanity.
Give me your arms for the broken-hearted
The ones that are far beyond my reach.
Give me Your heart for the ones forgotten.
Give me Your eyes so I can see
Give me your eyes so I can see,
Everything that I keep missing,
Give your love for humanity.
Give me your arms for the broken-hearted
The ones that are far beyond my reach.
Give me Your heart for the ones forgotten.
Give me Your eyes so I can see
God give us the will to
not only look but to see with your eyes and with your arms reach out and make
those whose lives are broken visible. Even the most broken of us are valuable
in God’s eyes and deserve to be seen.